Walking on the road today, I saw a little girl playing one-legged jumping on the floor with a smile on her face, and immediately behind her came a response that looked like her grandma and said: You jump like this, after a minute you will break your tooth when you fall. I saw Grandma’s expression with pain and anxiety, but she also seemed unable to stop her granddaughter’s behavior. This scene should be familiar to everyone. Many persuasion from the elders is mostly worrying rather than appreciating, strict orders have concealed care and love, thinking that the other party will understand, or one day they will know their intentions as elders. However, the deeper problem behind it is that they can’t perceive what this automated reaction model brings to them and others is pain, and the next generation is almost hypnotized and forced to accept and internalize, but once someone realizes it with awareness, he or her can change this family lock.
Michael
From Woodlands, Singapore 20201129
